Auto-update tanstack libraries

We need a github action workflow that updates `@tanstack/*` libraries
- easy to run
  - on `workflow_dispatch`
  - on `cron` schedule
- checkout this repo
- install `pnpm`
- run `pnpm up "@tanstack/*" --latest`
- if the `git status --porcelain .` is clean, stop here
- install node
- run pnpm lint
- run pnpm build
- if everything passes commit changes to main