ARTEMIS-5576: Fix OpenWire backslash escaping in dest name conversion

[mbengtsson]

Centralize and unify address translation for producers/consumers to preserve \ in names and avoid mismatches. Keeps temp/advisory/FQQN/ VirtualTopic behavior unchanged and adds tests for all cases.

Changes include:

• Replace ad-hoc wildcard and escape handling in AMQSession, AMQConsumer, and OpenWireConnection with central OpenWireUtil methods.
• Preserve temp/advisory destinations, FQQN structure, and VirtualTopic consumer naming conventions.
• Strip matching queue:// or topic:// scheme prefixes only when type matches.
• Add unit and integration tests covering escape rules, wildcard conversion, FQQN handling, and advisory/temp queue cases.
• Remove obsolete AMQSession.convertWildcard().

I think this change is 100% backward compatible and requires no client changes.